I myself like intelligent people it makes for a good relationship. I am a long way from you in New Zealand, I spent 12 years nursing my husband he had alzeihmers and died recently. I have been on my own for a year but he died 5 months ago today. I am positive lady, love friends and intend to pick up my life and move forward. I wish you well I have two ooptions stay on my own for the resto of my life you try and find happiness again. I hope it comes your way.